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Thinking about sex a lot leading to orgasms

Mu' meneen Brothers and Sisters,

As Salaam Aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh. (May Allah's Peace, Mercy and Blessings be upon all of you)

One of our brothers/sisters has asked this question:

 im 18 and i constantly think about sex.i think about how me and my future husbad (i am not engaged or anything) is going to have sex and what its going to feel like i do this so much that i end up having an orgasm just by thinking about it in detail.i know its wrong but its always in my mind when i wake up and go to sleep especially nearer to my periods.when i think about this i dont have a specific picture of a man in my head.i have no intention of actually carrying any act out.
please can you give me a dua that i can read to stop thinking abou sex.?

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Sister there is no duaa as such. This is part of your test in your youth. If you refrain from the fahisha (indecent) there is reward from your Lord creator. This usually happens when you see  western movies or TV wherein there is a huge amount of fahisha activities shown. The sub-consious mind then transforms the evil desires in the heart and controls your emotions and the shaytan whispers you to forget your Rabb and indulge in haraam actions.

The devout believers are encouraged to get their daughters married as soon as they reach 18 years of age. This protects them from doing the haraam. In any case what does the woman do after 18. They go out partying with non mehram boys and within a short time they get tangled in the evil web of debauchery. They then change many partners who are out to hunt new women, drink alcohol and other such things and before they know what they have got themselves into, they go into depression and almost reach the point of no return.
Sometimes they are lucky to have family support who nurse them back to reality and halaal activities. Most times they fall into deeper abysses. 


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