My question is, Im fade up with my life with every one & each & every thing in the world.
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Assalam
Alaikum,
I
really appreciate your hard work & I would be really thankful to you if you
plz plz answer me this time. My question is, Im fade up with my life with every
one & each & every thing in the world, so Im not able to keep my
husband happy because of that he use to be very much sad now a days I undrstand
his feelings towards me & even my duties towards him. But I don know wt
happened to me I just don wan to live more. Can u plz suggest me some thing
which might be help me to come back towards life & my duties...plz plz.
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Answer:
Fed up with trials
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His
help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide,
and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear
witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear
witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His
Messengers.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chatper 76 Surah
Dhahr verses 2-3:
2 Verily We created Man from a drop of mingled sperm in order to
try him: so We gave him (the gifts) of hearing and sight.
3 We showed him the Way: whether he be grateful or ungrateful.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 21 Surah
Anbiyaa verse 35:
35 Every soul shall have a taste of death: and We test you by
evil and by good (only) by way of trial: to Us must ye return.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chatper 29 Surah
Ankabut verses 2-3:
2 Do men think that they will be left alone on saying "We
believe" and that they will not be tested?
3 We did test those before them, and Allah will certainly know those
who are true from those who are false.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 42 Surah
Shura verse 48 (part):
48 ….. And truly when We give
man a taste of Mercy from Ourselves He doth exult thereat; but when some
ill happens to him on account of the deeds which His hands have sent forth, truly
then is man ungrateful!
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 57 Surah
Hadid verses 22-23:
22 No misfortune can happen on earth or in your souls but is recorded
in a Decree before We bring it into existence: that is truly easy for Allah:
23 In order that ye may not despair over matters that pass you by nor exult over favors bestowed upon you. For Allah loveth not any vainglorious boaster
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith
1562 Narrated by Sa'd
When the Prophet
(saws) was asked which people suffered the greatest affliction, he replied,
"The Prophets, then those who come next to them (in Taqwa), then those who
come next to them (in Taqwa). A man is afflicted in keeping his religion. If he
is firm in his religion his trial is severe, but if there is weakness in his
religion it is made light for him."
Sahih Al-Bukhari
Hadith 7.548 Narrated by Abu
Huraira
Allah's Messenger
(saws) said, "If Allah wants to do good to somebody, He afflicts him with
trials."
Respected sister, as many trials and afflictions one might
face in the life of this short and transitory world…..if one remembers at all
times that this life is but a period of test and trials and the real life is
the eternal and everlasting life of the Hereafter, then the seemingly
insurmountable troubles will seem absolutely small and immaterial.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 14 Surah
Ibraheem verse 34:
34 And He (Allah) Gives you of all that ye ask for. But if ye count the favors of Allah never
will ye be able to number them: verily man is given up to injustice and
ingratitude.
Thus whenever one is faced with a trial or an affliction,
it would only be fitting for a believer who sincerely believes in Allah and the
Last Day to remember the other innumerable favors their Lord has bestowed upon
him….for that then would give him the patience to bear his temporary test and
trial in the hope that he will have his full and due reward for his patience
and obedience in the Presence of his Lord Most Majestic Most Graceful in the
eternal life of the Hereafter.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 30 Surah
Rome verse 36:
36 When We give men a taste of Mercy they exult thereat: and when
some evil afflicts them because of what their (own) hands have sent forth
behold they are in despair!
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 41 Surah
Haa Meem verse 49:
49 Man does not weary of asking for good (things), but if ill
touches him he gives up all hope (and) is lost in despair.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 21 Surah
Anbiyaa verse 9:
9 If We give man a taste of mercy from Ourselves and then withdraw it
from him behold, he is in despair and (falls into) blasphemy.
To despair of the Mercy of the Lord when one is afflicted
with a temporary test or trial in the life of this short and transient world is
to show ingratitude for all the favors of the Lord…..and it is just not fitting
of the characteristic of a believer to be ungrateful unto his Lord Most
Gracious.
Your Question: Can u
plz suggest me some thing which might be help me to come back towards life
& my duties...plz plz.
Beloved Sister in Islam, the closer you get to the
constant remembrance of your Lord Creator and His Day of Tribunal….the more you
will realize the true nature and reality of this short and transient life; and
the absolute best way to get closer to the remembrance of Allah and the Last
Day is to constantly read and study and ponder and contemplate the Book which
the Lord Creator has Himself Revealed for our guidance: ie. the Glorious Quran.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chatper 2 Surah
Baqarah verses 155-157:
155 Be sure We shall test you with something of fear, and
hunger, some loss in goods or lives or the fruits (of your toil); but give glad
tidings to those who patiently persevere.
156 Who say when afflicted with calamity: "To Allah we belong and
to Him is our return."
157 They are those on whom (descend) Blessings from Allah and Mercy, and
they are the ones that receive Guidance.
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 13 Surah Raad verse
28-29:
The people who have accepted (the Message), their hearts find comfort in the remembrance
of Allah. Note it well!, that is
Allah’s remembrance Alone that brings contentment to the hearts! Blessed are those who have accepted the
Message and done righteous deeds. They
will have a good end.
If one trusts, obeys, and follows the guidance and
commands of Allah and His Messenger (saws),
one can be assured of never ever being misled; but if one believes, obeys and follows any
other guidance, other than that of Allah and His Messenger (saws), one can be
assured of being led astray.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only
due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me
alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is
the Only Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan