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She helps to alleviate the burden of the debtor

Sahih Muslim, 10/227, Kitab al-musaqah wa'l-muzari'ah, bab fadl inzar al-mu'sir.
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She is generous

Fath al-Bari, 10/330, Kitab al-libas, bab al-qala'id wa'l-sakhab li'l-nisa'. According to another report also given by Bukhari: "He (PBUH) came to the women and commanded them to give in charity,
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She is patient

" The man repeated his request for advice several times, and each time the Prophet (PBUH) said: "Do not become angry."136 Note: 136. Fath al-Bari, 10/519, Kitab al-adab, bab al-hadhr min al-ghadab.
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She is easy-going and does not bear grudges

"141 Note: 141. Fath al-Bari, 7/141, Kitab munqib al-Ansar, bab dhikr Hind bint 'Utbah.
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She is not envious

Reported by Bukhari in al-Adab al-Mufrad, 1/210, Bab la yu'dhi jarahu The person who weighs heavily in the balance of Islam (i.e.
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Her speech is not exaggerated or affected

and I think that `Umar feared the most for them of all people on earth."155 Note: 155. Reported by Abu Ya'la and al-Tabarani; the men of its isnad are thiqat.
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She is friendly and likeable

Fath al-Bari, 10/471, Kitab al-adab, bab ma yajuz min ightiyab ahl al-fasad wa'l-rayab; Sahih Muslim, 16/144, Kitab al-birr wa'lsillat wa'l-adab, bab mudarah man yutqi fuhshihi.
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She keeps secrets

Fath al-Bari, 9/175, Kitab al-nikah and 7/317, Kitab al-baghazi, bab 'ard al-insan ibnatahu 'ala ahl al-khayr The virtue of keeping secrets was not confined only to the men of the salaf,
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She is of cheerful Countenance

"166 Note: 166. Fath al-Bari, 10/504, Kitab al-adab, bab al-tabassum wa'l-dahk; Sahih Muslim, 16/35, Kitab fada'il al-Sahabah, bab fada'il Jarir ibn 'Abdullah.
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She is lighthearted and has a sense of humour

and the Prophet (PBUH) laughed."174 Note: 174. Reported by Abu Ya'la; the men of its isnad are rijal al-sahih, except for Muhammad ibn 'Amr ibn 'Alqamah, whose hadith is hasan.
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