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She does not cheat, deceive, or stab in the back

See Sharh al-Sunnah, 10/71-73, Kitab al-imarah wa'l-qada', bab wa'id al-ghadr; Riyad al-Salihin, 705, bab tahrim al-ghadr.
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She is not a hypocrite

Fath al-Bari, 10/476, Kitab al-adab, bab ma yukrah min al-tamaduh; Sahih Muslim, 18/126, Kitab al-zuhd, bab al-nahi 'an ifrat fi'l-madh.
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She is characterized by shyness [ haya' ]

According to a report given by Muslim, he (PBUH) said: "Shyness is all good."35 Note: 35. Sahih Muslim, 2/7, Kitab al-iman, bab al-haya' shu'bah min al-iman.
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She is proud and does not beg

the higher hand is the one that spends, whilst the lower hand is the one that begs."38 Note: 38. Sahih Muslim, 7/124, Kitab al-zakat, bab bayan an al-yad al-'uliya khayr min al-yad al-sufla.
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She does not interfere in that which does not concern her

Sahih Muslim, 12/10, Kitab al-aqdiyah, bab al-nahi 'an kathrah al-masa'il min ghayri hajah.
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She does noshow off or boast

"47 Note: 47. Bukhari and Muslim. See Sharh al-Sunnah, 10/323, Kitab al-riqaq, bab al-riya' wa'l-sam'ah.
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She is fair in her judgements

See Sharh al-Sunnah 10/328, Kitab al-hudud, bab qat' yad al-sharif wa'l-mar'ah wa'l-shafa'ah fi'l-hadd.
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She does not oppress or mistreat others

Fath al-Bari, 5/97, Kitab al-muzalim, bab la yazlum al-Muslimu al-Muslima wa la yuslimuhu.
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She avoids cursing and foul language

Fath al-Bari, 10/452, Kitab al-adab, bab lam yakun al-Nabi (PBUH) fashishan wala mutafahhishan. He even refrained from cursing the kafirin who had hardened their hearts to his message.
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She is gentle and kind towards people

Bukhari and Muslim. See Sharh al-Sunnah, 10/67, Kitab al-imarah wa'l-qada', bab ma 'ala al-walah min al-taysir.
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