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She chooses a good husband

Fath al-Bari, 7/476, Kitab al-maghazi, bab ghazwat Khaybar. Such great Muslim women are examples worthy of emulation, from whom Muslim women may learn purity of faith, strength of character,
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She endears herself to her husband and is keen to please him

See Fath al-Bari, 5/116, Kitab al-mazalim, bab al-ghurfah wa'l-'aliyyah al-mushrifah; Sahih Muslim, 7/195, Kitab al-siyam, bab bayan an al-shahr yakun tis'an wa 'ishrin.
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She does not disclose his secrets

then one of them goes and discloses the secret of the other."49 Note: 49. Sahih Muslim, 10/8, Kitab al-nikah, bab tahrim ifsha' sirr al-mar'ah;
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She fills his heart with joy

Sahih Muslim, 10/56, Kitab al-rida', bab istihbab nikah al-bikr. She does not forget that she is the greatest joy in this life for a man, if she knows how to endear herself to him.
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She is one of the most successful wives

Sahih Muslim, 10/56, Kitab al-rida', bab istihbab nikah al-bikr.
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She understands the great responsibility that she has toward ...

Each of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock."1 Note: 1. (Bukhari and Muslim), See Sharh al-Sunnah, 10/61, Kitab al-imarah wa'l-qada', bab al-ra'i mas'ul 'an ri'atihi.
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She demonstrates her love and affection for them

Al-Aqra` ibn Habis said, "I have ten children and I have never kissed any of them." The Prophet (PBUH) said: "He who does not show mercy will not be shown mercy."7 Note: 7.
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The Muslim Woman and Her Relatives: Islamic view of kinship ...

1/144, bab la tanzil al-rahmah 'ala qawm fihim qati' rahm. "Mercy wilnot descend upon a people among whom is one who breaks the ties of kinship.
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She maintains the ties of kinship even if her relatives are ...

Fath al-Bari, 10/414, Kitab al-adab, bab silah al-akh al-mushrik. Hence the Muslim woman sees that the spring of human emotion does not dry up when a person utters the Shahadah,
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She adheres to the Islamic teachings regarding good treatmen ...

let him not harm or annoy his neighbour . . ."4 Note: 4. Fath al-Bari, 10/445, Kitab al-adab, bab man kana yu'min bi-Allah wa'l-yawm al-akhir fala yu'dhi jarahu.
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