Why is Muta haraam?
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As salam u alaikum,
i have one question
that "CAN U PLEASE TELL ME WHY THE MUTTAH (TEMPERORY MARRAIGE) IS HARRAM
PLEASE ANSWER ONLY FROM THE GLORIOUS QURAN. I THINK IT CAN NOT BE HARRAM
BECAUSE THE MAJOR ADVANTAGE OF MUTTAH IS "REDUCTION IN ADULTRY"
PEOPLE WILL NOT COMMIT ADULTRY AS ADULTRY ITSELF IS HARRAM. SO IT WON`T BE FAIR
THAT ADULTRY AND MUUTAH ARE HARRAM.
PLEASE ANSWER MY QUESTION SOON, MAY GOD BLESS YOU, AND MAY GOD
MAKE YOU, ME AND EVERY ONE ON THE RIGHT PATH.
WASSALAM.
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Answer:
Why is Muta haraam?
In the
name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness.
Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray,
none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is no one (no idol, no
person, no grave, no prophet, no imam,
no dai,
nobody!) worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that
Muhammad(saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
‘Mutah’ was a term used for a form of ‘temporary’ marriage
prevalent in the Days of Ignorance before Islam, where a man would
‘temporarily’ contract a woman for a fixed period, fulfil
his lust with her, and divorce her at the end of the agreed period without any
responsibility towards the woman whatsoever.
This mutually agreed period would be at an agreed and negotiated price
between the man and the woman, for a fixed period of time which could
be for a couple of hours, or days, or weeks, etc. as negotiated.
The
society in the Days of Ignorance before Islam had tried to give a legal ‘veil’
to the abomination of ‘zina’ and prostitution by
various means, and the ‘mutah’ was one of such
veils! Islam removed all such veils from
the abomination of ‘zina’ and declared that the only
legal way for a man and woman to enjoy conjugal relationships was for the man
and woman to be legally wedded to each other in the ‘nikaah’
contract, where the man would shoulder the responsibility of a proper
marriage.
Your
Question: CAN U PLEASE TELL ME WHY THE MUTTAH (TEMPERORY MARRAIGE) IS HARRAM
PLEASE ANSWER ONLY FROM THE GLORIOUS QURAN.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 23 Surah Muminoon verses 1-7:
1 The Believers must (eventually) win through
2 Those who humble themselves in their
prayers;
3 Who avoid vain talk;
4 Who are active in deeds of charity;
5 Who abstain from sex
6 Except with those joined to them in the marriage bond, or (the
captives) whom their right hands possess; for (in their case) they are free
from blame
7 But those whose desires exceed those limits are transgressors
Your
Question: I THINK IT CAN NOT BE HARRAM BECAUSE THE MAJOR ADVANTAGE OF MUTTAH IS
"REDUCTION IN ADULTRY" PEOPLE WILL NOT COMMIT ADULTRY AS ADULTRY
ITSELF IS HARRAM. SO IT WON`T BE FAIR THAT ADULTRY AND MUUTAH ARE HARRAM.
Beloved
brother in Islam, if any fair-minded person just looks at the system of ‘mutah’, he would conclude that it is nothing but a
manifestation of the abomination of prostitution and nothing else. Which righteous parent or guardian would
allow his daughter or sister to temporarily have sex with a man in exchange for
a material reward?
Prostitution
is described as an act where a woman ‘temporarily’ engages in sexual activity
with a man in return for a negotiated fee.
If one asks oneself what is the difference between prostitution and ‘mutah’, one would find it extremely difficult to
differentiate the two terms!
Islam
recognized the evils of the temporary ‘mutah’
contract, and the Messenger of Allah (saws) declared the ‘mutah’
absolutely ‘haraam’ for the believers.
Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 5.527 Narrated
by Ali bin Abi Talib
On the day of Khaibar, Allah's
Messenger (saws) forbade the Mut'a (i.e. temporary
marriage), and the eating of donkey-meat.
Your
Question: SO IT WON`T BE FAIR THAT ADULTRY AND MUUTAH ARE HARRAM.
The deen of Islam balances the rights, duties and responsibilities
of the man and the woman united in the sacred bond of ‘nikaah’
or marriage. In the concept of ‘mutah’, the rights of the woman are severely compromised,
where, just as in prostitution, a woman is given a one time fee for fulfilling
the lust of the man; and the man simply walks away without any responsibility
towards her after he has fulfilled his desire!
The concept of ‘mutah’ would be absolutely
unfair to our sisters and daughters in Islam; and whatever is unfair cannot be
a part of the deen of Islam!
Whatever
written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance,
and whatever of error is of me. Allah
Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.
Your Brother in Islam,
Burhan