Is it alright for a man to marry upto 4 women of his choice?
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Is it alright for a man to marry upto 4
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Marry four women
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask
for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever
He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that
there is no one (no idol, no person, no
grave, no prophet, no imam, no dai,
nobody!) worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that
Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 4 Surah
Nisaa verse 3:
3 If ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans
marry women of your choice two or three or four; but if ye
fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them) then only one
or (a captive) that your right hands possess.
That will be more suitable to prevent you from doing injustice.
Firstly, marriage is not obligatory in Islam, but a
preferred and absolutely encouraged Sunnah.
Secondly, Allah Subhanah has absolutely forbidden the
believing men (and women) to form or develop any sort of illicit relationship
with a non-mehram member of the opposite sex out of marriage. Thus recognizing
the polygamous nature of man, for those men who wish to marry and keep more
than one wife at any one time, Allah Subhanah has given permission and an
option that a believing man, instead of taking the unlawful route, may lawfully
honor, marry and keep a maximum of four wives at any one time, if he wishes to
do so.
Thirdly, the Lord has Commanded the believers who wish to
exercise the option of marrying more than one wife that they should be
absolutely equal and just amongst their wives with the distribution of their
time and wealth amongst them. If one
fears that he might not be able to do justice if he chose to marry more than
one wife, then he should marry only one.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 4 Surah
Nisaa verse 129:
129 Ye are never able to be (totally and absolutely) fair and just as
between women even if it is your ardent desire: but turn not away (from a
woman) altogether so as to leave her (as it were) hanging (in the air)!. If ye come to a friendly understanding and
practice self-restraint Allah is Oft-Forgiving Most Merciful.
Sunan of Abu-Dawood Hadith 2128 Narrated by Abu Hurayrah
The Prophet (saws) said: ‘When a man has two
wives and he is inclined to one of them, he will come on the Day of
resurrection with a side hanging down.’
Your Question: Is it alright for a man to
marry upto 4 women of his choice?
If one desires to marry more than one wife and is
confident that he will be able to deal justly amongst his wives, he has the
right to exercise his lawful option of marrying more than one wife and keep
upto a maximum of four wives (who themselves have of their own will have agreed
and consented to be his 2nd, 3rd, or 4th wife)
of his choice at any one time, if he wishes to do so.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to
Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only
Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan