Questions on Sex 1
Mu' meneen Brothers and Sisters,
As Salaam Aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh. (May Allah's Peace, Mercy and Blessings be upon all of you)
One of our brothers/sisters has asked this question:
received your mails which you had forwarded but, some the answers for my
question I didn't found, please reply me:
*I a wife touches her husband or husband touches the body of his wife, can Wadhu become void, and we have to remake Wadhu, as some school of thoughts so.
Can wife & husband sleep naked embracing each other for full night, or they have to cover their body with bed sheet. Only bed sheet covering is Ok.
* During menses are it is forbidden only to have sexual intercourse or touching the pussy of of wife.
Can husband & wife write very sexy letters to each other or can they talk sexy things in Audio cassette and Internet too.
Dear Burhan, please reply the question number wise directly, without forwarding the other mails, because some question we can't clear. These questions are always occurring in our life and some of the friends misleading also. Therefore, we want to clear with you in the light of teaching of Islam.
Hope you will reply soon, Jazakallah khair.
Yours Brothers in islam
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Questions on Sex 1
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Your question: I a wife touches her husband or husband touches the body of his wife, can Wadhu become void, and we have to remake Wadhu, as some school of thoughts so.
There is absolutely no harm if a husband and wife touch each other while in the state of wudu, for the casual touching without anything being released from the private parts due to sexual arousal does not invalidate the wudu in any way.
Your question: Can wife & husband sleep naked embracing each other for full night, or they have to cover their body with bed sheet. Only bed sheet covering is Ok.
There is absolutely no condition that the husband or the wife have to be covered in a bed-sheet or any other cover while sleeping naked with each other, or while having sexual intercourse with each other. They may sleep covered if they wish to do so, and they may sleep uncovered if they wish to do so.
Your question:During menses are it is forbidden only to have sexual intercourse or touching the pussy of of wife.
If the wife is in her period of menses, or the period after child-birth, there is absolutely no harm and no sin if the husband and wife enjoy each others physical company, playing, touching, fondling, etc., and thus discharge the semen. The guidance of the Messenger of Allah (saws) on this subject is that the woman in menses must cover her lower private parts, and the husband and wife may enjoy everything except actual sexual intercourse.
The Messenger of Allah (saws) said, "Do everything (during the womans menstruation) except intercourse." (Related by Muslim, Tirmidhi, Abu Dawood)
Your question: Can husband & wife write very sexy letters to each other or can they talk sexy things in Audio cassette and Internet too.
There is absolutely no harm in the husband and wife writing letters of a sexual nature to each other, or talking sex talk in audio cassettes, internet chat, etc. One should be careful though that such letters, or cassettes, etc. do not fall into the hands of anyone other than the husband and the wife.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allahs Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.
Your Brother in Islam,