Sex thru anus.
Mu' meneen Brothers and Sisters,
As Salaam Aleikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.
(May Allah's Peace, Mercy and Blessings be upon all of you)
One of our brothers/sisters has asked
this question:
My
husband is doing sex in an abnormal way (kaumu lut) to me while I sleep, I
become like deaf while sleeping thus he can do anything to me without my
knowledge, sometime I wake up and he will hurrily pretend to be asleep. We have
discussed this several time but we end up arguing, he is doing this even to our
kids, I caught him doing this to our several months old baby boy when I wake
up.....he is a committed muslim, praying, and doing all good deeds of islam,
thats why I was asking him why are you praying while you are a worst than all
sinners?...How is our religion advise me..... he has been like addicted, and I
believe he will NEVER change coz he is still doing even in the holly month. I
have to sleep in another room , we had to make a patition in our room, and when
we want to meet normaly we do before we part for sleep. S marriage for is like
just a relationship to raise kids and I am very worried and I ve been praying
for the changes but God is still testing my patience.
I will
be happy to receive your advise
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Answer:
Sex thru anus
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His
help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide,
and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear
witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear
witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His
Messengers.
Sunan of Abu-Dawood Hadith 2157 Narrated by Abu Hurayrah
The Prophet (saws) said: ‘He who has
intercourse with his wife through her anus is accursed.’
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 3192 Narrated by Khuzaymah ibn Thabit
The Prophet (saws) said, "Allah is not
ashamed of the Truth! Do not have
intercourse with women through the anus."
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 3195 Narrated by Abdullah ibn Abbas
Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "Allah
will not look at a man who has intercourse with a man or a woman through the
anus."
Sunan of Abu-Dawood Hadith 3895 Narrated by Abu Hurayrah
The Prophet (saws) said: ‘If anyone resorts
to a diviner and believes in what he says or has intercourse with his wife when
she is menstruating, or has intercourse with his wife through her anus:
he has nothing to do with what has been sent down to Muhammad (saws)!’
Allah and His Messenger (saws) have specified as
absolutely unlawful and prohibited for a believer who sincerely fears Allah and
the Last Day to have conjugal relations with his wife through the anus.
The abominable and repulsive act of anal sex
is unnatural, unhealthy, unhygienic, unclean and impure; and this abomination
of an act is not found even in any of the lower animate creations!
Respected sister in Islam, under absolutely no
circumstances would it be permitted for you, if indeed you fear Allah and the
Last Day, to allow your husband to have conjugal relations with you through the
anus. If you sincerely believe that your
husband is repentant at his abomination of a sin and will not try to do the
same again, and you can bring yourself to forgive him….you may forgive him and
save your marriage. But if you believe
that your husband is neither ashamed nor repentant at the commission of his
abomination, and he insists on continuing this heinous sin with you….you should
immediately distance yourself from him through the institution of divorce, and
there would be absolutely no blame and sin upon you.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only
due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me
alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is
the Only Source of Strength.
Your brother and
well wisher in Islam,
Burhan