(Quexstion No.6820)I am one of allah"s beleiver want to know about to have sex in a halaal manner.
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I am one of allah"s beleiver want to know about to have sex in a halaal manner without violating shariat. reply me what to do? My age is only 19.
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Sex lawful only in Marriage
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Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 23 Surah Muminoon verses 1-7:
1 The believers must (eventually) win through
2 Those who humble themselves in their prayers;
3 (Those) Who avoid vain talk;
4 (Those)Who are active in deeds of charity;
5 (Those) Who scrupulously guard their private parts,
6 Except with those joined to them in the marriage bond or those whom their right hands possess; for (in their case) they are free from blame
7 But those whose desires exceed those limits are transgressors
Islam has made the fulfilling of all of ones (man or womans) natural sexual desires only through the sacred institution of marriage.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 2 Surah Baqarah verse 223:
223 Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth (for sexual intercourse) when or how ye will.
Islam has allowed the husband and the wife united in the sacred bond of marriage every possible liberty to enjoy conjugal relations with each other, except three:
- It is strictly prohibited to have the actual act of sexual intercourse with ones wife during her period of menstruation.
- It is strictly prohibited to enter the woman through her anus.
- Although there is no specific prohibition mentioned in the Quran and Sunnah, the majority of the scholars in Islam have voiced their opinion against oral sex, whereby one touches the others private organs with their mouth.
Other than the above three restrictions, one may enjoy conjugal relations with ones wife any place, any time, and any how their hearts desire.
Abu Dhar al-Ghafari reported: The Messenger of Allah (saws) said: there is a reward for you [even] in sex with your wife." The companions asked: O Messenger of Allah (saws) is there a reward if one satisfies his passion?" He (saws) said: "Do you know that if he satisfies it unlawfully he has taken a sin upon himself? Likewise, if he satisfies it lawfully, he is rewarded."
Related by Ahmad and Muslim.
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