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When a husband while a sexutal intercourse with his wife , if he suck some milk from his wife breast , then what will will be there relation.wheather they remain as husband & wife.

During sexual intercourse men & women take their sexual part in one another part,does this action allowed in sexual intercourse,kindly give me the informationabout the action prohibitated in islam.

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Milk wife breast

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Your Question: when a husband while a sexutal intercourse with his wife , if he suck some milk from his wife breast , then what will will be there relation.wheather they remain as husband & wife.

There is absolutely no harm or restriction in Islam if the husband wishes to touch, kiss, or suck the breasts of his wife. If the husband happens to taste the milk from his wife’s breast accidentally or voluntary, there is absolutely no harm and does not effect their relationship in the least.

Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 3.815 Narrated by Aisha

Once the Prophet (saws) came to me while a man was in my house. He (saws) said, "O 'Aisha! Who is this (man)?" I replied, "My foster brother." He (saws) said, "O 'Aisha! Be sure about your foster brothers, as fostership is only valid if it takes place in the suckling period (before two years of age)."

In light of the above clear guidance of the Messenger of Allah (saws), the consumption of a women’s milk will only bring into effect foster-relationships if the suckling baby is in the suckling period, which is unanimously accepted in Islam as being under two years of age. Thus the majority of the good scholars in Islam are of the opinion that if a husband accidentally or voluntary happens to taste the milk from his wife’s breast, it does not effect their relationship or the validity of their ‘nikaah’ in the least.

Your Question: during sexual intercourse men & women take their sexual part in one another part,does this action allowed in sexual intercourse,kindly give me the informationabout the action prohibitated in islam.

Beloved brother in Islam, we sincerely apologize but we are truly unable to understand this question. If you could kindly clarify or rephrase the question, we assure you that we will strive to the best of our knowledge and ability to address it in light of the guidance of the Quran and the Sunnah, Insha Allah.

What we can do for you here is list the few acts which are prohibited to the believers when enjoying conjugal relations with their wives in the sacred bond of marriage in Islam; other than the few listed prohibitions, one is at absolute liberty in Shariah to enjoy conjugal relations with one’s wife any which way one pleases or wills.

Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 2 Surah Baqarah verse 223:

223 Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will.

Abu Dhar al-Ghafari reported: ‘The Messenger of Allah (saws) said: “there is a reward for you [even] in sex with your wife."’ The companions asked: ‘O Messenger of Allah (saws) is there a reward if one satisfies his passion?" He (saws) said: "Do you know that if he satisfies it unlawfully he has taken a sin upon himself? Likewise, if he satisfies it lawfully, he is rewarded."

Related by Ahmad and Muslim.

Islam has allowed the husband and the wife in marriage every possible liberty to enjoy conjugal relations with each other, except three:

1. It is strictly prohibited to have sexual intercourse with one’s wife during her period of menstruation.
2. It is strictly prohibited to enter the woman through her anus.
3. Although there is no specific prohibition mentioned in the Quran and Sunnah, the majority of the scholars in Islam have voiced their opinion against ‘oral’ sex, whereby one touches the other’s private organs with their mouth.

Other than the above three restrictions, one may enjoy conjugal relations with one’s wife any place, any time, and any how their heart’s desire.

Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.

Your brother and well wisher in Islam,

Burhan