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Is it haram to love some one ??

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is it haram to love some one ?? for example a girl lovin a boy is that haram , infact they never had any sexually relationship , never touched each other ,just spoke to each other on the phone ,..is it wrong ???

 

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Is love permissible

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Your Question: is it haram to love some one ?? for example a girl lovin a boy is that haram


Dear and Beloved Sister, love-hate, like-dislike, joy-sorrow, smile-weep, etc. are natural emotions of mankind! What determines virtue and sin is what one says or does when one experiences these natural emotions!

 

To love someone is a natural emotion, and there is absolutely no sin if one loves another person; it is what one does after one has fallen in love with that person which would determine whether it would be counted as a virtue and a good deed in the Sight of Allah or a sin!

 

If one falls in love, and informs ones guardians that they love so and so, and requests them to sanctify their love in the sacred bond of marriage so that they may love each other for the rest of their lives would be counted as a virtue and a good deed in the Sight of Allah Subhanah.

 

But if one falls in love, and strives to meet or talk to the person in secret and in private, and in their love transgress the boundaries of Allah Subhanah before they are united in the sacred bond of marriage; then indeed it would constitute a huge sin in the Sight of Allah Subhanah.

 

Your Question: infact they never had any sexually relationship , never touched each other ,just spoke to each other on the phone ,..is it wrong ???

Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 5 Surah Maidah verse 5 (part):

5 .. (Lawful unto you in marriage) are (not only) chaste women who are believers but chaste women among the People of the Book revealed before your time when ye give them their due dowers and desire chastity, not lewdness nor secret intrigues. If anyone rejects faith fruitless is his work and in the Hereafter he will be in the ranks of those who have lost (all spiritual good).

 

Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 3118 Narrated by Umar ibn al-Khattab

The Prophet (saws) said, "Whenever a man is alone with a (non-mehram) woman, the Shaytaan makes the third."

 

Beloved Sister, Islam absolutely prohibits secret meetings and the casual and vain talk between two non-mehram members of the opposite sex; such casual and vain talking of two non-mehram members of the opposite sex would indeed constitute a grave sin in the Sight of Allah Subhanah.

 

Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allahs Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.

Your brother and well wisher in Islam,

 

 

Burhan


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