I love a girl but father forced me to marriage other girl but i dont like him so what can i do
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i love a girl but father forced me to marriage other girl but i dont like him so what can i do
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Father forced marriage
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is no one (no idol, no person, no grave, no prophet, no imam, no dai, nobody!) worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.
Dear and beloved brother, as much as you were coerced by your father to marry the girl of his choice, by consummating the marriage you did actually agree and consent to that marriage.
It would only be righteousness and closer to piety in the Sight of Allah that after you have consummated your marriage, you fear Allah and remain absolutely faithful to the woman you have married, and bestow upon her the honor, love, kindness and mercy that every righteous wife deserves in Islam.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 4 Surah Nisaa verse 19:
19 O ye who believe! You are forbidden to inherit women against their will. Nor should ye treat them with harshness that ye may take away part of the dower ye have given them except where they have been guilty of open lewdness; on the contrary live with them on a footing of kindness and equity. If ye take a dislike to them it may be that ye dislike a thing and Allah brings about through it a great deal of good.
Sahih Muslim Hadith 3469 Narrated by Abu Hurayrah
Allah's Messenger (saws) said: a believing man should not hate a believing woman; if he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another
Beloved brother in Islam, if may be that because of your emotions and feelings for a woman who is not your wife, you may temporarily dislike the wife you have married; but trust and fear Allah Subhanah, for He may bring about a lot of good from your legal and lawful marriage.
As your brothers and sincere well-wishers in faith, our humble advice to you would be to fear Allah, be absolutely faithful to the woman you have married, and strive your absolutely best to fulfill all your duties and responsibilities in the marriage. If you sincerely wish to fulfill your vows of marriage, it may be that Allah Subhanah will put love and mercy in your heart for the woman you have married and bring about a great deal of good through this sacred union, Insha Allah.
Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 30 Surah Rome verse 21:
21 And among His Signs is this that He created for you mates from among yourselves that ye may dwell in tranquillity with them and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts); verily in that are Signs for those who reflect.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allahs Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.
Your brother and well wisher in Islam,