Salam. i really love a boy.i talked to my family about our relation ships but they all dissagrred about it. we both love each other a lot. we can wait for each other for the wholw life.
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salam. i really love a boy.i talked to my family about our relation ships but they all dissagrred about it. we both love each other a lot. we can wait for each other for the wholw life. i just want to ask can i continue with my realtion ship, will Allah be angry with me. i don`t want Allah to be angry with me. I tried to break my relation ship with him, but i could not. Allah knows i tried my best to avoid him, but i was not success ful. cani talk to him on the phone, with out letting my parents knowing. will Allah be angry with me or not. I love Allah a lot. I worship him a much as i can. please tell me can i talk to him in secret. will Allah accept this. please yell me
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Allah Says in the Holy Quran Chapter 5 Surah Maidah verse 5: This day are (all) things good and pure made lawful unto you. The food of the People of the Book is lawful unto you and yours is lawful unto them. (Lawful unto you in marriage) are (not only) chaste women who are believers but chaste women among the People of the Book revealed before your time when ye give them their due dowers and desire chastity, not lewdness nor secret intrigues. If anyone rejects faith fruitless is his work and in the Hereafter he will be in the ranks of those who have lost (all spiritual good).
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 3118 Narrated by Umar ibn al-Khattab
The Prophet (saws) said, "Whenever a man is alone with a (non-mehram) woman, the Shaytaan makes the third."
It is absolutely unlawful, prohibited, and unacceptable in Islam for one who sincerely believes in Allah and the Last Day to have an illicit or secret relationship with a non-mehram member of the opposite sex. Such unlawful relationship allows the accursed enemy of man, the Shaytaan, to lead them towards the abomination and absolutely despised and grave sin of zina (fornication and adultery); and Allah Subhanah has specifically and categorically commanded the believers to abstain and not even come near anything that leads towards this abomination and grave sin of zina.
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 17 Surah Israa verse 32: Do not even go near zina (fornication or adultery) for it is a very indecent thing and a very evil way!
My dear and beloved Sister in Islam, either convince your parents and sanctify your love in the sacred institution of marriage, or fear Allah and completely put an end to the secret relationship immediately. To form or continue a secret and illicit relationship with a non-mehram member of the opposite sex would indeed be a grave sin in the Sight of Allah Subhanah.
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Your Brother in Islam,