When married if you have anal sex with your wife knowing or not knowing that it is a sin, than does that have any effect whatsoever on you "Nikaah" or not?? if you could plz elaborate on it and send me an email with the link of the answer. Thanks!
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Salaam brother! i have been hearing and reading many of the questions on this website, and wanted to know if, when married if you have anal sex with your wife knowing or not knowing that it is a sin, than does that have any effect whatsoever on you "Nikaah" or not?? if you could plz elaborate on it and send me an email with the link of the answer. Thanks!
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Anal sex & nikaah
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The Prophet (saws) said, "Allah is not ashamed of the Truth! Do not have intercourse with women through the anus."
Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "Allah will not look at a man who has intercourse with a man or a woman through the anus."
Sunan of Abu-Dawood Hadith 2157 Narrated by
The Prophet (saws) said: ‘He who has intercourse with his wife through her anus is accursed.’
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The Prophet (saws) said: ‘If anyone
resorts to a diviner and believes in what he says or has intercourse with his
wife when she is menstruating, or has intercourse with his wife through
her anus: he has nothing to do with what has been sent down to
Your Question: when married if you have anal sex with your wife knowing or not knowing that it is a sin, than does that have any effect whatsoever on you "Nikaah" or not??
Allah and His Messenger (saws) have specifically forbidden the believers who sincerely fear Allah and the Last Day to have anal sex with their wives.
If one has performed the heinous crime of entering his wife through her anus, he should turn back to Allah Subhanah seeking sincere repentance for his transgression and make a solemn pledge with Allah Subhanah that he would never ever commit the sin again. If one is sincere in seeking repentance from their Lord, it is expected that they will find their Lord Forgiving and Merciful.
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 39 Surah Zumur verses 53-54:
(O Prophet) say: “O My servants who have wronged their own souls….Do not despair of Allah’s Mercy! Surely, Allah forgives all sins. He indeed is the All Forgiving, All Merciful. Return to your Lord and submit to Him before the scourge overtakes you; for then you may get no help from anywhere.”
Allah says in the Holy Quran Chapter 3 Surah Ale Imraan verse 135-136:
Allah likes such good people very much, who, if ever they commit a base deed or wrong their own soul by the commission of a sin, remember Allah instantly, and ask for forgiveness from Him for their shortcomings. For who, but Allah, can forgive sins? (And Allah loves those) who do not knowingly persist in the wrongs they did. These will be rewarded with forgiveness from Allah, and with Gardens beneath which canals flow, and they will reside therein forever! How excellent is the reward of those who do good deeds!
The act of anal sex, as big a sin and crime it is in the Sight of Allah Subhanah, does not by itself negate or invalidate one’s nikaah with one’s spouse.
Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is of me alone. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.
Your brother and well wisher in Islam,